Highlights What’s Your Gender? If you’ve had some basic AF sex education you might have been taught that there are only two sexes and two genders. Wrong. Sex and Gender is a lot more complicated than that. What’s Your Sexuality? There are lots of different kinds of sexualities out there but how do you work out your sexuality? Well, like most things, it’s complicated. Does a Condom Kill the Mood? Why does using a condom kill the mood and why I think that this is actually a good thing? Should Men Last Longer At Sex? A lot of men who have sex with women ask me about lasting longer, but should they? There are better things that men can be doing to help women enjoy sex more. What You Say About Bish Eagle-eyed readers will know that I have a short survey that people can fill in to tell me about what they think about the website. I’ve had a few responses since I relaunched the website (mostly from the youngs). Here is representative sample of the kinds of things people have been saying. Relationship Negotiation People aren’t really used to the idea of relationship negotiation (apart from maybe in politics) but I think it’s super important in romantic relationships too.