Is Prone Masturbation Bad?
A reader asked ‘is prone masturbation bad?’. No it isn’t and also you should be wary of other sex education articles online. […]
A reader asked ‘is prone masturbation bad?’. No it isn’t and also you should be wary of other sex education articles online. […]
People often worry that they find masturbation better than sex. So here’s some advice if this is something that you think about. […]
A question I’ve been asked a lot lately (by young men) is how much masturbation is too much masturbation. Here’s my audio answer. […]
Some advice for when masturbation isn’t working (it’s okay not to masturbate) […]
Here I explain in a video why this is very very low risk sex – and why feelings are like farts! […]
Advice to a religious reader on how to give up masturbation and porn. […]
Advice on why masturbation with an orange marker pen is perhaps not a great idea […]
A young woman worried about why she is bleeding after masturbation, Some background on what this might be but also one of those times when it’s best to get checked out. […]
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Another very unlikely way to get pregnant. […]
Some teens need guidance on how to masturbate. So here’s a guide for parents on how you might address this with your kids. […]
Mutual masturbation and dry humping: very safe sex. […]
Here’s an explainer of what gooning is, why people do it, what some of the problems might be, and some sensible advice about it […]
I was asked ‘how do i know when I’ve had an orgasm’ recently by a young woman in an RSE lesson. She was saying that it’s obvious when men orgasm because they ejaculate, but how can she tell when she is having an orgasm? […]
What is queer sex is a simple sounding question but there isn’t one easy answer for it. Anyway, I get asked it so here’s how I respond. […]
Advice for someone who wants to masturbate the conventional way, but also why they should be careful about where they get their sex advice from. […]
Advice for a someone who has a sudden urge to get away from oral sex. Is it just too much stimulation, or is it related to trauma? […]
We might feel more pleasure the more we have sex, but only if we can pay attention to our body and what it might do. […]
Sex is is not always hard, fast, intense, rough, or kinky. Sometimes sex is slow, soft, gentle and deeply relaxing. This kind of sex is called vanilla sex, and a lot of people really love it. […]
Read this super interesting question from someone asking about when people begin masturbating. Also why it’s hard to know and why people don’t talk about it. […]
Spoilers ahoy! Here’s my sex and relationships education guide to It’s A Sin. Advice, thoughts, and useful information and links to accompany the show.
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Learn more about No Nut November, how you can do it without being a dick, and some tips on how to get through a long long month! Also, advice on why you might not want to Destroy your Dick this December! […]
Is it okay to only want to give and not receive during sex? Read my advice about dynamics during sex, consent, power, and non-simultaneous sex. […]
We’re going to need to think differently about safer sex for some time. Thanks COVID-19. So this is a guide to how to have safer sex from this coronavirus as well as the other things we usually need to think about. […]
“How I masturbate is by humping a pillow, is it normal though?” Read more for top advice and statistics on pillow humping. […]
Pit your wits in this pregnancy likelihood quiz. How likely is pregnancy from one time sex do you think? Find out here. […]
My advice for someone who is worried that they might not be a virgin because they put something in their vagina. […]
This guide to ‘what is sex’ aims to answer the most frequently asked questions about sex in a simple and short way. Although yeah, the whole article is like an essay. I’ve tried to define each thing and then give some pointers for how to do them more consensually and safely. […]
We might think that everyone else is enjoying sex more than us, but they’re not. Many people have a lack of pleasure from sex, even if they like solo sex. […]
To go on top without hurting their penis a) make sure it’s hard, b) guide it in, c) move slowly at first, d) check in during sex. Click for more tips. […]
Read this fascinating article on the history of penis in vagina sex and why it is seen as the only kind of ‘proper sex’ – an awesome guest post by Dr Eleanor Janega. […]
A lot of men who have sex with women ask me about lasting longer, but should they? There are better things that men can be doing to help women enjoy sex more. […]
Eagle-eyed readers will know that I have a short survey that people can fill in to tell me about what they think about the website. I’ve had a few responses since I relaunched the website (mostly from the youngs). Here is representative sample of the kinds of things people have been saying. […]
Although there is no bone in the human penis (I’m only doing Sex Ed for humans here I’m afraid) you can break your penis. […]
I often get questions from people who worry about fantasies they are having. Here’s some advice about how to cope with your worries about fantasies and how to explore what they may mean. […]