Read this fascinating article on the history of penis in vagina sex and why it is seen as the only kind of ‘proper sex’ – an awesome guest post by Dr Eleanor Janega.
Why does using a condom kill the mood and why I think that this is actually a good thing?
Eagle-eyed readers will know that I have a short survey that people can fill in to tell me about what they think about the website. I’ve had a few responses since I relaunched the website (mostly from the youngs). Here is representative sample of the kinds of things people have been saying.
Although there is no bone in the human penis (I’m only doing Sex Ed for humans here I’m afraid) you can break your penis.
Here’s the Bish guide to what is stealthing, why it’s bad, and advice for you if you are a would be stealther.
My advice for how to have sex with a man for a woman who’s only had sex with women. It should just be the same right? Why isn’t it?
Explaining porn so you can learn about it without having to watch it (if you want). Here’s the final episode! T is for Teen, V is for Vintage & W is for Webcam
Audio advice for someone who has sex with someone else when drunk.
Some advice for when masturbation isn’t working (it’s okay not to masturbate)
One question I get asked a lot is about what happens if two people were both drunk when they have sex – would it be consensual?
Bits and bobs of advice for students dealing with the pressure to get laid during Freshers’ Week
Some people like to top and bottom when they have sex, but what is this, who does what and do you have to do it?
If you’ve had some basic AF sex education you might have been taught that there are only two sexes and two genders. Wrong. Sex and Gender is a lot more complicated than that.
A lot of men who have sex with women ask me about lasting longer, but should they? There are better things that men can be doing to help women enjoy sex more.
People aren’t really used to the idea of relationship negotiation (apart from maybe in politics) but I think it’s super important in romantic relationships too.
People often worry that they find masturbation better than sex. So here’s some advice if this is something that you think about.
I often get questions from people who worry about fantasies they are having. Here’s some advice about how to cope with your worries about fantasies and how to explore what they may mean.
A question I’ve been asked a lot lately (from young men) is how much masturbation is too much masturbation. So here’s some audio advice from me.
Join Team Bish, make this site better and get involved in some awesome Sex Ed.
Audio Bish! Advice for a guy who had sex with someone under age.
How to write a great online dating profile. Also how to write a great first message that works.
It can be really hard seeing someone having a hard time. We want to help, but how do we do the right thing when we try to support someone?
Long distance relationships are just like any other relationship. The key is communication.
Audio advice, from Justin, for someone getting pressured into sex from everyone at school.
There are lots of different kinds of sexualities out there but how do you work out your sexuality? Well, like most things, it’s complicated.
Hear my advice for reader who has asked me that age old question ‘does he still like me?’
How to be good at sexting, how to deal with the risks and how to make sure it’s consensual. You have to be over 18 to take and send sexy pics (though you may not be prosecuted for this).
Advice for a reader on whether having sex with his girlfriend is the right thing to do.
For more advice check out
Should I Have Sex? – some questions for you to think about to help you work out when the right time is for you
How’s My Relationship – if you’re not sure about the relationship or are just stressing a bit this can help
Talk About What’s Important To You In Relationships – an idea from me for how you might be able to do some real talk with someone
So we’ve all been taught that we should use condoms for vaginal or anal sex because sexually transmitted infections can be spread that way. But do we need to use a condom for oral? Or a dental dam (thin sheet of latex that you can lick through)?
Sex can make a lot of people really anxious and so some people find that cannabis can help but can smoking weed affect sex in a bad way?
Lots of people struggle with having a small dick. It’s not a surprise, because we all taught that dick size is very important – particularly if you’re a man.