Learn more about No Nut November, how you can do it without being a dick, and some tips on how to get through a long long month! […]
What to do when Sex is Awkward
Apparently, sex can be awkward. Like, well awkward. Also, it can be massive cringe! Right? Who knew? So here we’ll find out why, why it’s not actually a bad thing, and what to do when sex is awkward. […]
How to Meet Our Needs
Before we can think about enjoying sex or having the kind of sex we want we should think about how we can meet our needs from sex first. It’s important. […]
How to Enjoy Sex More
There are a lot of crap articles online about how to enjoy sex more, so thanks for clicking on this one. A lot of sex education and sex advice actually makes it harder to enjoy sex, so here’s some advice that I think will actually help you. […]
What is Sex Quiz
You all haven’t been reading my ‘What is Sex’ post enough, so I’m testing you on it to make you feel bad. […]
Consent and the Law
I get asked about this a lot so here is a guide to consent and the law (in the UK, although it will be similar elsewhere too). Take care reading this if you are a survivor of a sexual assault because I talk about the technical aspects of sexual offences in a little bit of […]
Have the Best First Time Sex
Here’s a simple step by step guide to help you have the best first time sex possible. Because your first time can always be amazing. […]
What Is Sex?
This guide to ‘what is sex’ aims to answer the most frequently asked questions about sex in a simple and short way. Although yeah, the whole article is like an essay. I’ve tried to define each thing and then give some pointers for how to do them more consensually and safely. […]
Consent and Sex – Can You Help?
Here’s a consent and sex guide that I’ve made for social medias. Can you help me share it? […]
Why do people have sex?
So this is some homework for you. Think about all of the different reasons that people might have sex with someone (though solo sex totally counts as sex too). I’ve listed a few things below but just spend a few minutes thinking about all the reasons. […]
The History of Penis in Vagina as Default Sex
Read this fascinating article on the history of penis in vagina sex and why it is seen as the only kind of ‘proper sex’ – an awesome guest post by Dr Eleanor Janega. […]
Should Men Last Longer At Sex?
A lot of men who have sex with women ask me about lasting longer, but should they? There are better things that men can be doing to help women enjoy sex more. […]
Is Masturbation Better Than Sex?
People often worry that they find masturbation better than sex. So here’s some advice if this is something that you think about. […]
Worry About Fantasies
I often get questions from people who worry about fantasies they are having. Here’s some advice about how to cope with your worries about fantasies and how to explore what they may mean. […]
What Does Top and Bottom Mean?
Some people like to top and bottom when they have sex, but what is this, who does what and do you have to do it? […]
Is It Consensual If We Were Both Drunk?
One question I get asked a lot is about what happens if two people were both drunk when they have sex – would it be consensual? […]
How To Be Good At Sex
There’s just one thing you need to learn to be good at sex. Just one thing. Pay attention … […]
Solo Sex
There are lots of reasons for having solo sex – but how often do we do it because we might enjoy it? Here’s why and also how. […]
Dry Humping
Dry humping is extremely popular with my readers here at Bish. Here I explain what it is, why it’s so popular, how to make it (even) safer and how to enjoy it. […]
BISH QUIZ – First Time Sex
Think you know your stuff about sex? Try this deceptively difficult quiz about first time sex (ever or with someone else). […]
Should I Have Sex?
‘Should I have sex’ is for you to answer. Here’s some stuff to think about so that you are less likely to regret it if you do do it. (Remember, the law says you should be over 16.) […]
OMG Yes, No, Hmm: work out what kind of sex you like
People always tell you about the sex you *should* be having. This helps you work out what kind of sex you like and might *want* to have. […]
Sex Talk and Communication
How to talk about sex to make sure that it’s enjoyable and consensual without killing the mood. […]
How To Have Sex
How to have sex and how to make it good, especially for the first time. It should feel nice, not painful or uncomfortable. […]
Sex and the Law
Sex and the law. Under age sex, consent, rape, sexual assault, outside sex, porn, abortions, confidentiality, marriage… Boring but very important. […]
How to Practice Consent
If you haven’t had sex before you can practice consent by thinking about handshakes! Find out how this works […]
What’s The Best Sex Position For You?
There is no best sex position, it’s about finding the best one for you. This is about the basics, why people like particular positions but why it is different from person to person. […]
Consent, Innit.
Good sex is all about consent. It’s easy to understand but hard to do […]
Where Do People Like To Be Touched?
People talk about ‘erogenous zones’ but not everyone likes to be touched in the same places in the same way all the time. […]
Booze and Sex
Sometimes drunk sex can be good, but it can also be rubbish, unsafe, unwanted and can lead to mistakes. Learn how to handle it better here. […]
Amazing Sex Without Having ‘Sex’
You can have amazing sex without having ‘sex’. Different kinds of sex like dry humping, grinding, and even snogging can give you orgasms. […]
How to Masturbate
You might think you don’t need to learn about masturbation, you might think that masturbation is wrong, you might think this is a bit strange: for everyone else, click the title above for more. […]
How to Kiss
They make kissing look well easy on telly, but to start with it can be awkward. Here are some ideas on how to do it. […]
Ejaculating on Someone
Although the cumshot might be big in porn, not everyone likes it in real life. If you want to do it or want someone to do it, please ask first! […]
Make Sex Last Longer
How to deal with premature ejaculation and how to last longer. […]
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