Is It Consensual If We Were Both Drunk?

Is It Consensual If We Were Both Drunk?

One question I get asked a lot is about what happens if two people were both drunk when they have sex – would it be consensual?

How To Be Good At Sex

How To Be Good At Sex

There’s only one thing you need to learn to be good at sex. Just one thing. Pay attention …

Solo Sex

Solo Sex

There are lots of reasons for having solo sex – but how often do we do it because we might enjoy it? Here’s why and also how.

Dry Humping

Dry Humping

Dry humping is extremely popular with my readers here at Bish. Here I explain what it is, why it’s so popular, how to make it (even) safer and how to enjoy it.

OMG Yes, No, Hmm: work out what kind of sex you like

OMG Yes, No, Hmm: work out what kind of sex you like

People always tell you about the sex you *should* be having. This helps you work out what kind of sex you like and might *want* to have.

Sex Talk and Communication

Sex Talk and Communication

Sex talk is not always easy. But here are some tips for to help you communicate what you do and don’t want from sex.

BISH QUIZ – First Time Sex

BISH QUIZ – First Time Sex

Think you know your stuff about sex? Try this deceptively difficult quiz about first time sex (ever or with someone else). Don’t worry your results aren’t recorded or anything – it’s just for fun innit.

Should I Have Sex?

Should I Have Sex?

‘Should I have sex’ is a question for you to answer, not me, but here’s some stuff to think about.

How To Have Sex

How To Have Sex

A basic guide for how to have sex and how to make it good, especially for the first time. It should feel nice, not painful or uncomfortable.

Sex and the Law

Sex and the Law

Guide to under age sex (age of consent), consent, rape, sexual assault, outside sex, porn, abortions, confidentiality, marriage…. Boring but very important.

How Good Sex (With Consent) Feels

How Good Sex (With Consent) Feels

What it feels like to have really good sex with consent and how you can practice with handshakes.

What’s The Best Sex Position For You?

What’s The Best Sex Position For You?

There is no best sex position, it’s about finding the best one for you. This is about the basics, why people like particular positions but why it is different from person to person.

Consent, Innit.

Consent, Innit.

Good sex is all about consent. It’s easy to understand but hard to do

Where Do People Like To Be Touched?

Where Do People Like To Be Touched?

People talk about ‘erogenous zones’ but not everyone likes to be touched in the same places in the same way all the time.

Booze and Sex

Booze and Sex

Sometimes drunk sex can be good, but it can also be rubbish, unsafe, unwanted and can lead to mistakes. Learn how to handle it better here.

Amazing Sex Without Having ‘Sex’

Amazing Sex Without Having ‘Sex’

‘Sex’ is not just about entry sex. Here’s how you can have amazing sex that doesn’t involve putting anything in anyone.

Solo Sex – How to masturbate

Solo Sex – How to masturbate

How to masturbate (or wank for UK readers). Not everyone does it, but solo sex is a great way of exploring what you like.

How to Kiss

How to Kiss

They make kissing look well easy on telly, but to start with it can be awkward. Here are some ideas on how to do it.

Ejaculating on Someone

Ejaculating on Someone

Although the cumshot might be big in porn, not everyone likes it in real life. If you want to do it or want someone to do it, please ask first!

Make Sex Last Longer

Make Sex Last Longer

How to deal with premature ejaculation and how to make sex last longer.