I was asked ‘how do i know when I’ve had an orgasm’ recently by a young woman in an RSE lesson. She was saying that it’s obvious when men orgasm because they ejaculate, but how can she tell when she is having an orgasm? […]
Track Your Own Menstrual Cycle
A lot of you tell me that you use apps to track your menstrual cycles (periods, ovulation, and when you are most fertile). Great, but did you know they’re actually not that accurate? Especially the apps which just rely on you putting the dates when you get your period. This article explains why that is, […]
What is Post Nut Clarity?
In this article we’ll learn about post nut clarity, why no-one really knows what it is, but also what it might be and what it might do. […]
Penis Quiz
How much do you know about penises? Try my funny and informative penis quiz and then have a click on the links below to find out more about penises and genitals generally. […]
Breasts and Chests
An illustrated guide to breasts and chests. Here you’ll find out about how similar but also different they are and also how people have orgasms from them. […]
How We React During Sex
How our bodies might react during sex can be different for different people and at different times. Read more about why this is important to talk about. […]
Orgasm and Ejaculation are Different
Tl;dr, orgasm and ejaculation are different. Sometimes they happen at the same time, but that doesn’t mean they are the same thing. […]
Painful sex – how to have penis in vagina sex without pain
Painful sex is something that a lot of readers contact me about. Usually from young women with vaginas in pain after trying penis in vagina sex. So that’s what this is about. I’ll tell you the causes of why sex can be painful which should give you some advice about having sex without pain. A […]
How to Feel Better About Your Body
Read this carefully if you are struggling with your body at the minute. Hopefully you might find it helpful but it might also be difficult. I don’t go into any detail about weight, diets or anything like that. […]
Genitals — the differences and similarities
Your genitals are unique, as you can see in these drawings (by the most excellent Stuart F. Taylor). Warning, genital drawings ahead! […]
Can You Break Your Penis?
Although there is no bone in the human penis (I’m only doing Sex Ed for humans here I’m afraid) you can break your penis. […]
Advice For If You Have a Small Dick
Lots of people struggle with having a small dick. It’s not a surprise, because we all taught that dick size is very important – particularly if you’re a man. However, for sex, dick size is really not important. […]
Penis size – a video guide
Here’s a video to help you feel more chill about your penis size. Contains no actual dick images. Just drawings. […]
Clitoris and Vagina – a video guide
A video guide to the clitoris and vagina – no actual pictures of either, just illustrations and terrible animations. […]
The Hard On
A lot of people worry about getting and keeping a hard on (aka erections). This is about what makes them happen, why they might disappear, erectile dysfunction and what might actually help. […]
Orgasms – why not just try to enjoy sexy times instead?
Really trying to have orgasms? BISH advice is to forget about orgasms and try to enjoy sex instead. […]
Why (Penis in Vagina) Sex Can Be ‘Meh’
Why penis in vagina sex can be a bit rubbish for many couples. […]
Clitoris and Vagina
A guide to the vulva. Where the clitoris and G spot is. How the vagina works. Why and how people squirt. […]
The Penis
A guide to the Penis, Average Dick Size, Hard Ons, Foreskin, the Bell End and Frenulum. […]
Desire and Arousal – Wanting Sex and Being Turned On
Wanting to have sex is ‘desire.’ Being turned on is ‘arousal.’ Sometimes they happen at the same time, sometimes not. Why? […]
Period Stories
Real life period stories from people about what their first periods were like. […]
Be Satisfied With Your Penis Size
Here are some tips to make your penis feel a bit bigger and why having it’s not a biggie having a biggie. […]
Pubic Hair: Your Pubes, Your Choice
Lots of people worry about people trimming, shaving or waxing their pubes. No idea why … […]
Fertility Explained – chances of getting pregnant
So just what are the chances of getting pregnant? Here’s what other sex educators might not tell you about fertility. […]
Reproductive Body Parts
When people say vagina, they probably mean vulva. […]
Balls and Cum an Illustrated Guide
A guide to balls. How ejaculation works, testicular cancer, ball checks, prostate gland, G spot and ‘Pre cum’ […]
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