This Ebook is the ‘best of BISH’ in one resource which is easy to read on your phone. A great place to start if your sex ed has left you with more questions than answers.
For what their sex ed left out
Let’s say that your kid has finished their exams and they’re starting their first relationships. You know that their sex ed hasn’t covered everything and they’ll have questions about sex and relationships. Your sex and relationships education wasn’t that comprehensive either so you don’t have the answers either, maybe you ‘just muddled through’, making all kinds of mistakes along the way.
You could just send them here to BISH which is one of the most comprehensive sex and relationships education websites out there. As you can see, readers consider it trustworthy and they love how it’s written, and is popular with queer and non queer people alike. Written by an expert who has been doing sex and relationships education, advice and support since 1999. It’s free, ad free, and AI free, so you know you can trust it. But there’s so much info: where do they start? Where do you start? That’s where this ebook comes in.
Buy the BISH Ebook here or join the Patreon
For what *your* sex ed left out
Or, more likely sadly, your sex ed left you with more questions than answers. Your family really don’t want to go there either. You’ve found this website though, maybe it has helped you? It has for lots of other people like you? You want to support it but also you want to get something back from your support too? This ebook is here for you too.
If you don’t have the means to buy it, please let me know and I’ll just send it to you for free. Drop me a message via the Ask BISH page.
The ‘Best of BISH’ in one resource
This ebook is a collection of some of the key posts at BISH about ‘You’, Relationships, Sex, Safer Sex, Bodies, and Porn. All collected together in one pdf document which is designed to be easy to read on smartphones, with all the cute colourful illustrations that you’ve come to expect from BISH. It’s a pdf, not an app, so no tracking, no notifications, just a helpful resource for you to read.
Buying this ebook also helps to support the work of BISH, which is entirely crowdfunded and is a trustworthy website for thousands of young people every week.
“Better to point teenagers to more realistic sources, such as BISH, a British website that answers all sorts of niche questions that trouble young people as they begin stumbling their way through sexual relationships.” The Economist
It’s just £5 or free to all Patreon subscribers.
Here are the contents and the sample pages.
Contents of the BISH ebook
2. You
3. How you feel about yourself
8. Sex and gender
15. Sexualities
22. How to have a better relationship with our phones
29. Relationships
30. Guide to relationships
37. How’s your relationship?
42. How to ‘get’ a boyfriend, girlfriend, or themfriend
55. How to ask
62. A guide to ‘no’
68. Sex
69. Should I have sex?
76. How to have sex
88. Having non-entry sex
95. How to enjoy sex more
102. Meeting our needs
110. A guide to masturbation
117. What sex you might actually want?
119. How to talk about it
122. Sexting
128. Booze and sex
134. Safer Sex
135. How to talk about safer sex
141. Sexual health services
148. Contraception
153. Condoms and dams
157. Sex infections
163. Sex and the law
171. Bodies
172. Penis and testicles
181. Vulva
190. Breasts and chests
200. Feel better about your body
215. Porn
216. An educational guide to porn
223. Porn and you
Sample pages of the BISH ebook
Buy the BISH Ebook here or join the Patreon
© Justin Hancock, 2026 Find out more about me and BISH here. If you’re an educator, head to my website BISH training, to find out about my resources for SRE and training for practitioners.
Buy the BISH Ebook, the best of BISH one easy to read pdf you can read on your phone. Just £5 or join the Patreon from just £1 a month.
BISH is run by me, Justin Hancock. I’ve been a trained sex and relationships educator since 1999. I’m a member of the World Association for Sexual Health. As well as BISH I also have resources, a podcast, and a coaching service for over 18s, as well as some of the best RSE teaching resources around. Find out out about my other work at justinhancock.co.uk. My work has featured (positively) in the media, like the BBC, Financial Times, The Economist, The Guardian, Sky One, and Novara Media.
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Other websites you might find helpful
There are other websites a bit like this one who have more funding than mine so they can do more and can provide more support. There’s Scarleteen who have lots of great advice articles and also moderated message boards where you can hang out and ask questions of other folk like you. Brook also offer sexual health services in person in the UK and online. The Mix are a UK online youth support service. For straight up advice I really like Go Ask Alice from Columbia University. Remember if you are in the UK and want some support there are loads of services near you, lots of them have their own websites.
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