A guide to sex, love and you.

For everyone over 14.

Sponsored by Durex

BISH is a guide to sex, love and you for everyone over 14. It’s for people who are (or are thinking about) having sex and/or relationships. Hopefully it’s for all genders and sexualities, people with disabilities, backgrounds, beliefs and values. It’s got a UK vibe so we say ‘snog’, ‘fancy’ and ‘shag’ a lot. If you need help IRL click here to find out about sexual health services.

You can Ask Bish if you have a question but please do have a look at questions I’ve already answered and the rest of the site. There are videos here or you can see them all at YouTube. Do leave comments (I pre-moderate them all), or you can talk to Bish via twitter. See what people like you say about BISH and you can also have your say. To find out more about BISH, Durex, and me (hi) go here.

Latest Posts

How To Be Attractive

How To Be Attractive

Here’s some advice for anyone who is struggling with feeling attractive, which includes any incel readers I may have. Don’t worry, I’m not going to yell at you or give you a bollocking. Here’s my best advice instead.

I Feel Like I Have to Have Sex to Make Him Happy

I Feel Like I Have to Have Sex to Make Him Happy

“My boyfriend always wants sex and I feel like I have to have sex to make him happy, it’s not like he makes me do it I choose to but I feel like I’m letting him down if I don’t. I’m 14 he’s 15”

How to Choose a Chocolate Bar

How to Choose a Chocolate Bar

It can hard working out what we want, particularly from sex. Read this about how to choose a chocolate bar. I it might help you have better sex.

Note – this is all about choosing food, so if you are struggling with how you feel about food at the minute give this a miss. Also this might not be great for you if choosing things is something you struggle with a lot.

How to Feel Better About Your Body

How to Feel Better About Your Body

Read this carefully if you are struggling with your body at the minute, hopefully you might find it helpful but it might also be difficult. The whole thing is about how we feel about our bodies but I don’t go into any detail about weight, diets or anything like that. 

Consent: Real Talk Among Yourselves

Consent: Real Talk Among Yourselves

Are you sick of being lectured in your Sex Ed? Bish is here to help with these cards for you to share and have that consent real talk with your mates

Have your say about relationships and sex education – (make it better)

Have your say about relationships and sex education – (make it better)

14 – 18 year olds! Have your say about relationships and sex education in the UK in this really quick survey. You have until Sunday 18th February to get your answers to me, so be fast!