A guide to sex, love and you.

For everyone over 14.

Sponsored by Durex

BISH is a guide to sex, love and you for everyone over 14. It’s for people who are (or are thinking about) having sex and/or relationships. Hopefully it’s for all genders and sexualities, people with disabilities, backgrounds, beliefs and values. It’s got a UK vibe so we say ‘snog’, ‘fancy’ and ‘shag’ a lot. If you need help IRL click here to find out about sexual health services.

You can Ask Bish if you have a question but please do have a look at questions I’ve already answered and the rest of the site. There is a LOT here so do have a click around and see if I’ve answered your question. There are videos here or you can see them all at YouTube.

I also have an activity book to accompany this website. It has activities to help you to work out how to do you, sex, and relationships. It’s just £3 or free if you don’t have cash and it’s the perfect thing to have on your phone or even to print out. Check it out here, it even has join the dots genitals!

Do leave comments (I pre-moderate them all), or you can follow me via twitter or instagram. See what people like you say about this website and you can also have your say. If you would like to help make the website better you can get involved here. To find out more about BISH (formerly Best In Sexual Health), Durex, and me (hi) go here.

If you’re an adult trying to teach young people about sex and relationships, thanks for dropping by but this isn’t a teaching resource. Head over to my website for practitioners for resources or check out DO… RSE for Schools.

Latest From BISH

Your Feedback on BISH

Your Feedback on BISH

I thought I’d share some feedback with you about what young people said about BISH in their recent responses to my survey. I’ve also got some nice quotes from other people who work sex and relationships advice, education and research.

Define The Relationship

Define The Relationship

One of the big reasons for problems in relationships is when people haven’t had the ‘define the relationship’ chat. Even when people do have the DTR they don’t really do very much defining. So this article is to give you some ideas about how to do this more effectively so that you can avoid unnecessary heartache oh, and STIs.

Dams

Dams

Dams are a thin sheet of latex or plastic which are used when people have oral sex. Although a lot of people would like to use them they are getting very difficult to find. So here is a quick blog about why people use them, and how you can make your own.

STI Quiz!

STI Quiz!

You are always telling me how much you love a quiz so here, have an STI quiz. You are very welcome.

What is Sex Quiz

What is Sex Quiz

You all haven’t been reading my ‘What is Sex’ post enough, so I’m testing you on it to make you feel bad.

Gaslighting in Relationships

Gaslighting in Relationships

Gaslighting in relationships is when someone manipulates someone so that they doubt their own mental health. It’s one of the many possible signs of an abusive relationship.