A guide to sex, love and you.

For everyone over 14.

Sponsored by Durex

BISH is a guide to sex, love and you for everyone over 14. It’s for people who are (or are thinking about) having sex / relationships. I’m trying to make it well inclusive. For all genders and sexualities, people with disabilities, backgrounds, beliefs and values. It’s got a UK vibe so we say ‘snog’, ‘fancy’ and ‘shag’ a lot.

If you need help in person click here to find out about sexual health services.

You are welcome to ask me questions if you like (I like questions, particularly about relationship stuff) but please do have a look at questions I’ve already answered and the rest of the site. There is a LOT here so do have a click around and see if I’ve answered your question.

I also have an activity book to accompany this website check it out here.

Do leave comments (I pre-moderate them all), or you can follow me via twitter or instagram or YouTube, please follow and tell your friends. You could also chat to me on my new facebook group.

This is one of the best relationships and sex advice websites around: here’s what the pros and the youngs say about it.To find out more about BISH (formerly Best In Sexual Health) go here.

Here are the latest articles, but click on the menu to find what you’re looking for.

My Friend is in an Abusive Relationship

My Friend is in an Abusive Relationship

My advice to someone who is worried that her friend is in an abusive relationship and needs support.

Why is her G Spot more pleasurable than her Clitoris?

Why is her G Spot more pleasurable than her Clitoris?

Here’s a long explanation of why some people get more pleasure out of different parts of their body being touched than others. Maybe listen to some K pop while you read.

What is Romance?

What is Romance?

Just as we can have sex without romance, we can have romance without sex – but what is romance?

Pregnancy Likelihood Quiz!

Pregnancy Likelihood Quiz!

Pit your wits in this pregnancy likelihood quiz. How likely is pregnancy from one time sex do you think? Find out here.

Lubricant

Lubricant

Lubricant helps to keep things wet, and for many kinds of sex wetness is important. So this post is all about lubricant, whether you need it or not, what kinds you can use and where to get it.

What Are The Chances of Getting an STI?

What Are The Chances of Getting an STI?

The chances of getting an STI are probably lower than you think, but here’s why having safer sex is still a very good idea.

 

If you’re teaching about this please promote BISH to your (14+) students (here are some posters for you to print), but this website is not designed for classroom RSE teaching. Head over to my website for practitioners for resources or check out DO… RSE for Schools.

If you want some more advanced advice for adults check out the work I do with Meg-John Barker at megjohnandjustin.com we have a podcast, a book, zines, and blogs. It’s for over 18s.