BISH is a guide to sex, love and you for everyone over 14. Here’s what people say about it!

“Its very easy to find what you’re looking for, it also made me feel very comfortable with myself when reading a lot of stuff” […]

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A Young Person

“I know when I link to information on BISH that it will be straightforward, reassuring, and give useful ideas…” […]

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An Agony Aunt

If you need help in person click here to find out about sexual health services. You are welcome to ask me questions if you like (I like questions, particularly about relationship stuff) but please do have a look at questions I’ve already answered and the rest of the site. I also have an activity book to accompany BISH here.

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What is sex - expert answers to frequently asked questions

What Is Sex?

- This guide to ‘what is sex’ aims to answer the most frequently asked questions about sex in a simple and short way (although yeah, the whole article is like an essay). I’ve tried to define what each thing is and then give some pointers for how to do them more consensually and safely. [...]

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Sexual Health Services Bish

Sexual Health Services

- Learn more about sexual health services for all ages in the UK. What they are, where they are, what they do and what going to a clinic is like. [...]

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Guide to relationships. Drawings of diverse range of young people in front of a heart

Guide to Relationships

- In this guide to relationships: we'll look at what we mean by relationships, limits, how you should be treated, romance, trust and break ups. [...]

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Latest posts

Don't share your phone password with your partner - finger on phone password with a cross over it

Don’t Share Your Phone Password With Your Partner

- You know how in these articles I say things like, ‘on the one hand this’, ‘perhaps consider this’, and ‘it’s more complicated than that’. Well not today dear BISH fan, today I’m going to tell you what to do, or more accurately what not to do. Don’t share your phone password with your partner. [...]

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how to ask

How To Ask

- The best way to learn how to ask is to think about consent and the other person. Do they want to be asked? What is it you're asking and who are you asking for? [...]

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Why Won’t He Have Vaginal Sex With Me?

- “Is it weird if I ask him why he won’t have vaginal sex with me?” Not all guys are into vaginal sex. Find out why and what you can do about it. [...]

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