BISH is a guide to sex, love and you for everyone over 14. Here’s what people say about it!

“It’s kind, it’s a bit political, it’s inclusive and it’s funny.” […]

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An NHS Sexual Health Advisor

“A place where young people can explore real questions and concepts, about themselves, their bodies and how they relate to others” […]

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A Project Co-Ordinator

If you need help in person click here to find out about sexual health services. You are welcome to ask me questions if you like (I like questions, particularly about relationship stuff) but please do have a look at questions I’ve already answered and the rest of the site. I also have an activity book to accompany BISH.

Important posts

What is sex - expert answers to frequently asked questions

What Is Sex?

- This guide to ‘what is sex’ aims to answer the most frequently asked questions about sex in a simple and short way. Although yeah, the whole article is like an essay. I’ve tried to define each thing and then give some pointers for how to do them more consensually and safely. [...]

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Sexual Health Services Bish

Sexual Health Services

- Learn more about sexual health services for all ages in the UK. What they are, where they are, what they do and what going to a clinic is like. [...]

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Guide to relationships. Drawings of diverse range of young people in front of a heart

Guide to Relationships

- In this guide to relationships: we'll look at what we mean by relationships, limits, how you should be treated, romance, trust and break ups. [...]

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BISH is a guide to sex, love and you for everyone over 14. It’s for people who are (or are thinking about) having sex / relationships. It’s for all genders and sexualities, people with disabilities, backgrounds, beliefs and values. It’s got a UK vibe so we say ‘snog’, ‘fancy’ and ‘shag’ a lot. In case you’re wondering, it used to stand for Best In Sexual Health. Read more about BISH.

Latest from BISH

a guide to safer sex and covid 19

Safer Sex and Covid-19

- We’re going to need to think more differently about safer sex for the next few months. Thanks COVID-19. So this is a guide to how to have safer sex from this coronavirus as well as the other things we usually need to think about.  [...]

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I can't orgasm with a partner

I Can’t Orgasm With My Partner

- “Whenever I masturbate (about once a day), I usually orgasm within 5-10 minutes with no problem. However when a partner is giving me a ‘handjob’ or ‘blowjob’ or even having sex with me, I won’t orgasm.” [...]

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how can i become friends with a girl

Become Friends With a Girl

- A reader asks 'how can I become friends with a girl'. Read this expert advice on how you can make new friends whatever gender they are. [...]

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If you’re teaching about this please promote BISH to your (14+) students (here are some posters for you to print), but this website is not designed for classroom RSE teaching. Head over to my website for practitioners for resources or check out DO… RSE for Schools.

If you want some more advanced advice for adults check out the work I do with Meg-John Barker at megjohnandjustin.com we have a podcast, a book, zines, and blogs. It’s for over 18s. –>

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