crushes and unrequited love bish

Crushes and Unrequited Love

Crushes and unrequited love aren’t always bad, in fact sometimes they can be good. Here’s some expert advice from me, a sex and relationships educator since 1999 (who might also have experienced the odd crush or two in my time). […]

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How to make friends

How to Make Friends

We all feel lonely from time to time, yes even me. A bit of loneliness is fine and it’s actually a useful feeling because it reminds us that we need to make new friends, (re)connect with people, and the world around us. […]

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how to impress someone you like (and should you even try)

How to impress someone you like

Someone asked me an interesting question the other day. How to impress someone you like? Or should you even try to impress someone you like? Should you try to impose yourself on them, or should you let them try to impose themselves on you? Do you only present the best sides of you, or is […]

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sexual bullying - bish

Sexual Bullying

Find out what sexual bullying is, why it’s in all of our interests to stop it, and we can deal with it if it happens to us. […]

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consensual festivities

Consensual Festivities

Christmas, gatherings or holidays, are often really stressful for a lot of people. This Christmas in particular is going to be even more stressful given what’s happening in the world.  If we tried to have more consensual festivities, it would be a lot more fun. […]

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how bullying happens

How Bullying Happens

If we understand how bullying happens then we might be able to deal with it better. As it’s about power and freedoms it’s something we can all help tackle. […]

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trust in relationships - how do you know if you have it? BISH

Trust in Relationships

Trust in relationships is really complicated but also a very important topic. This article is a bit philosophical, and political, but also has great advice. […]

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how to netflix and choose

How to Netflix and Choose

Life is too short to watch TV you don’t want to, so here’s how you can ‘Netflix and choose’ with someone else so you’re both watching something you enjoy. […]

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freedoms and covid

Freedoms and COVID

If you’re a fan of BISH then you’ll know that we are all about consent. And consent is about freedom and choices and agreement. But because of COVID we are all being asked (or forced) to do things that we haven’t agreed to, which restrict our freedom to choose. […]

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Don't share your phone password with your partner - finger on phone password with a cross over it

Don’t Share Your Phone Password With Your Partner

You know how in these articles I say things like, ‘on the one hand this’, ‘perhaps consider this’, and ‘it’s more complicated than that’. Well not today dear BISH fan, today I’m going to tell you what to do, or more accurately what not to do. Don’t share your phone password with your partner. […]

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How to Say I Love You (and some tips on how not to say it) BISH sex, love and you for over 14s

How to Say ‘I Love You’

So it’s that time of year again when we’re supposed to wash, put on our best pants, light a fancy candle, drink cans of fanta out of plastic champagne glasses (just me then?) and say ‘I love you’ to someone. Great, but how? […]

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Define the Relationship to help prevent heartache and STIs.

Define The Relationship

One of the big reasons for problems in relationships is when people haven’t had the define the relationship chat. Here are some ideas about how to do it. […]

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gaslighting in relationships

Gaslighting in Relationships

Gaslighting in relationships is when someone manipulates someone so that they doubt their own mental health. It’s one of the many possible signs of an abusive relationship.  […]

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Talking about talking - a worksheet to help you to communicate in relationships

Talking About Talking

One of the most basic bits of relationships advice that literally everyone will give you is that communication is vital. :slow handclaps emoji: […]

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How to be attractive. Good and nice advice if you are an incel or struggling with this generally

How To Be Attractive

Here’s some advice for anyone who is struggling with feeling attractive. This is particularly for you if you are worried about being an incel. Don’t worry, I’m not going to yell at you or give you a bollocking. Here’s my best advice instead. (Sidenote — this stuff is not easy. I know that many of […]

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Being Friends Board Game Bish

Being Friends Board Game

Play the Being Friends Board Game on your phones with your pals and learn how to be a good and nice friend along the way (whilst also showing that you are better than them). […]

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How To Seduce Someone

For hundreds of years people have been looking for advice on how to seduce someone. There are hundreds of people who make money teaching people how to do it. Here’s my expert and free advice […]

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Mates before dates. The Bish guide for not putting romantic relationships before friendships

Mates Before Dates

When a mate tells you you are spending too much time with a romantic partner (or trying to get one) and not enough with them. Time for mates before dates. […]

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How Do I Get Over Them?

You can and will get over them but it takes time and tears. You need to feel the feelings, think about how you can do you and see your mates more. […]

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BISH how to be romantic on a budget

How to be romantic on a budget

Want to do something romantic for someone on Valentine’s Day but don’t have much cash? Here are a few ideas for affordable romantic things and cheap dates that are thoughtful and creative. […]

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How to Date

Tips on how to have a good first date. Look fresh. Be you and forget games and rules. Try to enjoy it rather than think ‘am I going to get laid/snog/second date’. Pay attention. […]

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