My advice about feeling guilty for not sending nudes. It’s about how we ask and also about the FOMO should story. […]
Under age sex and the law
A tricky question about under age sex and the law. My advice on the law but also about what is ethical and how we can learn from our mistakes. […]
Why Won’t He Top Me?
‘Why won’t he top me?’ My advice on why men might not want to top their girlfriends and what this actually means. […]
How Do I Get Over The Shame of Sharing A Nude?
In a recent Q&A session I did for a school (teachers, book yours here) I was asked this very good question: how do I get over the shame of sharing a nude? […]
When do people begin masturbating?
Read this super interesting question from someone asking about when people begin masturbating. Also why it’s hard to know and why people don’t talk about it. […]
My Sex Dreams Feel Better Than Sex in Real Life
What does it mean if sex dreams feel better than sex in real life? Does it reveal ‘truths’ about your sexuality and relationships? […]
Is Prone Masturbation Bad?
A reader asked ‘is prone masturbation bad?’. No it isn’t and also you should be wary of other sex education articles online. […]
Boyfriend Watching Porn
This week’s Ask BISH is from someone asking about their boyfriend watching porn. Do all men watch porn? […]
My Friend Was Forced into Sex and I’m Worried
Content note: I talk about sexual violence but try to avoid going into lots of detail. […]
Is it normal that I only want to give and not receive during sex?
Is it okay to only want to give and not receive during sex? Read my advice about dynamics during sex, consent, power, and non-simultaneous sex. […]
What if my balls move up into my body?
This week’s Ask Bish is for someone who’s worried in case their balls move up into their body. […]
She Can’t Come What Am I Doing Wrong?
My advice for a reader who is trying to make his girlfriend come. What are the best tips for how to make someone have an orgasm? […]
Kink and Asexuality as a Survivor
My advice to a young person who has a question about kink and asexuality as a survivor of rape. We don’t talk about any details of rape or sexual assault but it is mentioned. […]
I Can’t Orgasm With My Partner
“Whenever I masturbate (about once a day), I usually orgasm within 5-10 minutes with no problem. However when a partner is giving me a ‘handjob’ or ‘blowjob’ or even having sex with me, I won’t orgasm.” […]
Become Friends With a Girl
A reader asks ‘how can I become friends with a girl’. Read this expert advice on how you can make new friends whatever gender they are. […]
Anxious About Getting Her Pregnant
My advice to a reader who has a partner but is super anxious about getting her pregnant. Yes condoms, but there are lots of other things he could do too. […]
Should I Join The Bi Community
‘Should I join the bi community? Everyone is more enthusiastic about it than me but I just want to be bi by myself. Does that make me a “bad bi?”‘ […]
Why Won’t He Have Vaginal Sex With Me?
“Is it weird if I ask him why he won’t have vaginal sex with me?” Not all guys are into vaginal sex. Find out why and what you can do about it. […]
Making Him Accountable For Abuse
Advice to a reader on how to go about making his abuser accountable. There are no details of abuse or assault, but take care reading this anyway. […]
What Can I Do When They Lose Their Hard On?
“So, when boys i have gotten with have been drunk, I’ve noticed that they lose their hard on. Is there anything I can do in that situation to make it less awkward or to help them maintain their erection because a lot of the time they get embarrassed by it.” […]
How Do I Learn To Deepthroat So He Won’t Leave Me
I would like to know how do I learn about deepthroat. My boyfriend loves it but I am scared to vomit. Please help me with guidance, I am now scared that he would end up looking for another girl […]
Humping a Pillow, Is It Normal?
“How I masturbate is by humping a pillow, is it normal though?” Read more for top advice and statistics on pillow humping. […]
My Lad Friends are Calling Me a Slut
My advice to a reader who is having a nice time pulling in clubs but getting ‘bants’ from her lad friends who are calling her a slut. Booooo. […]
My Friend is in an Abusive Relationship
My advice to someone who is worried that her friend is in an abusive relationship and needs support. […]
Why is her G Spot more pleasurable than her Clitoris?
Here’s a long explanation of why some people get more pleasure out of different parts of their body being touched than others. Maybe listen to some K pop while you read. […]
About People Not Enjoying PiV
“Hey Bish, I do like how you bring attention to how some people don’t enjoy penetration or PiV that much. Is this based on people you have spoken to personally or any studies that you have found? […]
Am I Still a Virgin?
My advice for someone who is worried that they might not be a virgin because they put something in their vagina. […]
Can I Be Pregnant From Pre-Cum?
Here’s a question from a reader who is worried she is pregnant from pre-cum, but I have other worries. This post contains references to sexual assault and non-consent, so be careful before you read any further. […]
I Feel Like I Have to Have Sex to Make Him Happy
“My boyfriend always wants sex and I feel like I have to have sex to make him happy, it’s not like he makes me do it I choose to but I feel like I’m letting him down if I don’t. I’m 14 he’s 15” […]
Lack of Pleasure from Sex
We might think that everyone else is enjoying sex more than us, but they’re not. Many people have a lack of pleasure from sex, even if they like solo sex. […]
Why Do I Have Vaginal Discharge All The Time?
Why do I always have vaginal discharge all the time. I’m only 15.and whenever I go to the toilet my knickers are always soaking wet, please help me, because I’m worried about it. It has a bit of an odour too. […]
How Do I Go On Top?
To go on top without hurting their penis a) make sure it’s hard, b) guide it in, c) move slowly at first, d) check in during sex. Click for more tips. […]
Stretch Marks From My Growth Spurt
I’m 14 and I got stretch marks on my back from my growth spurt and I don’t know how people will react. None of the other guys have stretch marks is there a way of reducing their visibility? […]
How to Show Her I Care (after I forced her to have sex)
Here’s advice to a guy who wants to show someone he cares for her even though he forced her to have sex. CN – talks about rape but there are no descriptions of anything. […]
Help, I’m Being Slut Shamed
Advice for someone who is being slut shamed at school. A must read if you like to gossip about people or judge people for their sex lives. […]
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