How would you suggest dealing with the issue of parents saying, “no sex before marriage?” […]
Ask Bish – Our friend has been harassing a friend
Advice for a reader whose friend has been sexually harassing a friend via text (and is pissed off about it). […]
Ask Bish – He Won’t Sext Me, I’m Really Frustrated
Advice on how to stop being really frustrated about sex in a long distance relationship. My first audio response! Exciting! […]
Ask Bish – Fingering Problems
Advice to someone worried that they can’t cum but also that they bleed when they do fingering. […]
Ask Bish – Should I Get Paid to Have Sex?
Advice for a reader who is unsure about whether she should keep getting paid to have sex. Advice on the risks of sex work and how to make it safer. […]
Ask Bish – I’m not enjoying sex
Advice for some who’s not really enjoying sex. What do we really mean by enjoying sex and how do we learn to have it? […]
Ask Bish – Can we be friends after a break up?
Is it possible or a good idea to be friends after a break up? […]
Am I Pregnant?
Frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture: “I am freaking out, am I pregnant?” […]
Ask Bish – Should I have sex with someone I met online
My advice for a girl in an age gap relationship and whether she should have sex with her boyfriend who she met online. […]
How Can I Make Her Squirt?
The first in a series of frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture. First up “how can I make her squirt?” […]
Ask Bish – I’m ashamed of erections
A long question about feeling ashamed of erections, sexual desire and being male (which I’ve split into 3 sections). […]
Ask Bish “I’m so scared I might poo my pants”
Advice for someone about feeling anxious about pregnancy, dealing with friends with benefits fall out and life stuff. […]
Ask Bish – Pressured into oral?
Advice about how to deal with being forced and pressured into oral sex. Warning: talks about sexual assault. […]
Ask Bish – “I’m Getting Tired of Being Used.”
Some advice on how to deal with being in a relationship with someone in a relationship and being tired of being used. […]
Ask Bish – I’m so confused after an abusive relationship
Some advice for someone who is feeling confused about sex and relationships after an abusive relationship. Warning contains reference to abuse. […]
Ask Bish – Can you still have kids if you’ve been sexually abused?
*Contains references to child sexual abuse* Advice to a reader about how to get support for her friend. […]
My relationship is great, but I’m not sure I fancy them
Advice on why sexual attraction might sometimes go in a relationship and how to deal with that. […]
How should I have sex if I’m a lesbian?
There are no magic tricks for how to have sex if you’re a lesbian, or whatever sexuality you are, as everyone is different every time they have sex … […]
I’ve hurt myself masturbating
A reader has injured herself masturbating with an electric toothbrush. Advice from Dr Ranj on the injury and from me on DIY sex toys. […]
An open letter about low risk sex and pregnancy worries
tl;dr – pregnancy is very very unlikely from dry humping, wanking and sex with condoms. […]
Is it wrong to get sexually aroused very often?
My advice for a reader struggling with their sexual desires, responses, and fantasies. Some people get more aroused than others. It’s chill. […]
‘I’m autistic, will I get in trouble for masturbating?’
Advice for a reader about masturbation. Warning: there’s a reference to sexual abuse. […]
Is He Using Me For Sex?
We have sex up to 3 times a day, is he just using me for sex? […]
‘Masturbation and Porn Are Against My Religion’
Advice to a religious reader on how to give up masturbation and porn. […]
Advice Hijack – My Boyfriend Is Addicted To Porn So I Left Him
An occasional column where I get so annoyed by other advice columnists that I try and give better answers (it’s not like I have enough to do) … […]
Being Pressured Into Giving Oral Sex
Warning. Contains references to sexual assault/rape. Ask Bish – Your Questions Answered. Advice for someone who’s friend’s boyfriend is forcing them both to give him oral sex. […]
‘I Can’t Orgasm At All’
Ask Bish – Your Questions Answered. Even if we know our stuff about sex, it doesn’t mean we always enjoy it. […]
‘Should I Tell Her I Love Her?’
Love’s seen as this big heavy do or die type thing. Think harder about your feelings and think of what you would like to change. […]
‘Full’ sex, anal sex and pregnancy
Ask Bish – Another reader is worried about being pregnant but there might be other things to worry about too :/ […]
‘I Don’t Understand Sex, Help?’
Some advice for a reader who doesn’t understand sex and doesn’t know who can help. I think a lot of people will also feel this way, so I hope this helps. […]
‘When do balls drop?’
Do you know when balls drop? A lot of people really don’t know the answer to this (but pretend that they do) […]
Why Does My Clitoris Hurt?
What might be the causes of a painful clitoris (and when it’s time to tell mum). […]
He Doesn’t Like To Go On Top and I Don’t Know How
If he doesn’t like to go on top then it’s chill. Have different kinds of sex so it’s easier to do it in a position that you both find comfortable. […]
‘I have a strong desire to have sex but no arousal’
An answer about no arousal and strong desire but also about being ready for sex, what sex means and what we expect from sex […]
‘Will watching porn prevent me being a teacher?’
I’ve watched porn. Is it going to stop me getting a job as a teacher? […]
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