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Ask Bish - Your Sex and Relationships Questions Answered

Ask Bish – Can we be friends after a break up?

Is it possible or a good idea to be friends after a break up? […]

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Advice for if you are having a panic that you are pregnant

Am I Pregnant?

Frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture: “I am freaking out, am I pregnant?” […]

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Ask Bish – Should I have sex with someone I met online

My advice for a girl in an age gap relationship and whether she should have sex with her boyfriend who she met online. […]

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"How can I make her squirt?"

How Can I Make Her Squirt?

The first in a series of frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture. First up “how can I make her squirt?” […]

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Ask Bish – I’m ashamed of erections

A long question about feeling ashamed of erections, sexual desire and being male (which I’ve split into 3 sections). […]

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Ask Bish “I’m so scared I might poo my pants”

Advice for someone about feeling anxious about pregnancy, dealing with friends with benefits fall out and life stuff. […]

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Ask Bish – Pressured into oral?

Advice about how to deal with being forced and pressured into oral sex. Warning: talks about sexual assault. […]

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Ask Bish – “I’m Getting Tired of Being Used.”

Some advice on how to deal with being in a relationship with someone in a relationship and being tired of being used. […]

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Ask Bish – I’m so confused after an abusive relationship

Some advice for someone who is feeling confused about sex and relationships after an abusive relationship. Warning contains reference to abuse. […]

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Ask Bish – Can you still have kids if you’ve been sexually abused?

*Contains references to child sexual abuse* Advice to a reader about how to get support for her friend. […]

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my relationship is great but I'm not sure I fancy them

My relationship is great, but I’m not sure I fancy them

Advice on why sexual attraction might sometimes go in a relationship and how to deal with that. […]

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how should i have sex if I'm a lesbian?

How should I have sex if I’m a lesbian?

There are no magic tricks for how to have sex if you’re a lesbian, or whatever sexuality you are, as everyone is different every time they have sex … […]

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Advice for someone who has hurt themselves masturbating with an electric toothbrush

I’ve hurt myself masturbating

A reader has injured herself masturbating with an electric toothbrush. Advice from Dr Ranj on the injury and from me on DIY sex toys. […]

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about low risk sex and pregnancy worries

An open letter about low risk sex and pregnancy worries

tl;dr – pregnancy is very very unlikely from dry humping, wanking and sex with condoms. […]

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is it wrong to get sexually aroused very often

Is it wrong to get sexually aroused very often?

My advice for a reader struggling with their sexual desires, responses, and fantasies. Some people get more aroused than others. It’s chill. […]

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I'm autistic will i get in trouble for masturbating

‘I’m autistic, will I get in trouble for masturbating?’

Advice for a reader about masturbation. Warning: there’s a reference to sexual abuse. […]

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is he using me for sex

Is He Using Me For Sex?

We have sex up to 3 times a day, is he just using me for sex? […]

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masturbation and porn are against my religion

‘Masturbation and Porn Are Against My Religion’

Advice to a religious reader on how to give up masturbation and porn. […]

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Advice Hijack – My Boyfriend Is Addicted To Porn So I Left Him

An occasional column where I get so annoyed by other advice columnists that I try and give better answers (it’s not like I have enough to do) … […]

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Being Pressured Into Giving Oral Sex

Warning. Contains references to sexual assault/rape. Ask Bish – Your Questions Answered. Advice for someone who’s friend’s boyfriend is forcing them both to give him oral sex. […]

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I can't orgasm at all

‘I Can’t Orgasm At All’

Ask Bish – Your Questions Answered. Even if we know our stuff about sex, it doesn’t mean we always enjoy it. […]

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should i tell her I love her

‘Should I Tell Her I Love Her?’

Love’s seen as this big heavy do or die type thing. Think harder about your feelings and think of what you would like to change. […]

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‘Full’ sex, anal sex and pregnancy

Ask Bish – Another reader is worried about being pregnant but there might be other things to worry about too :/ […]

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i don't understand sex help

‘I Don’t Understand Sex, Help?’

Some advice for a reader who doesn’t understand sex and doesn’t know who can help. I think a lot of people will also feel this way, so I hope this helps. […]

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when do balls drop?

‘When do balls drop?’

Do you know when balls drop? A lot of people really don’t know the answer to this (but pretend that they do) […]

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Why Does My Clitoris Hurt?

What might be the causes of a painful clitoris (and when it’s time to tell mum). […]

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He Doesn’t Like To Go On Top and I Don’t Know How

If he doesn’t like to go on top then it’s chill. Have different kinds of sex so it’s easier to do it in a position that you both find comfortable. […]

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‘I have a strong desire to have sex but no arousal’

An answer about no arousal and strong desire but also about being ready for sex, what sex means and what we expect from sex […]

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‘Will watching porn prevent me being a teacher?’

I’ve watched porn. Is it going to stop me getting a job as a teacher? […]

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‘My Vagina Smells and Is Itchy, Is That Normal?’

Advice for a young person about why their vagina smells and itches. […]

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Ask Bish – Am I Too Young To Have Sex?

My advice for a 13 year old who wants to know whether she’s too young to have sex […]

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Ask Bish – Am I a Slut For Giving a Blowjob?

Advice for someone who was told by their mum that you have to be in love with someone before you give them a blowjob. […]

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Ask Bish – Where Can I Go For an STI Check Up?

Where to go for a check up for STIs? […]

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Ask Bish – If I’m 16 and she’s 15 is it against the law?

Whether under age sex against the law is different to what actually happens. I explain more here. […]

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Ask Bish – I Hate My Vagina

Advice for someone who hates the way their vagina looks (after ex said it looked bad – that bit made me ANGRY SEX EDUCATOR) […]

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