Sexual health services in the UK aren’t just places for you to get condoms, contraception, STI check ups, pregnancy tests and stuff. You can also go to chat about any worries or concerns you have about sex or your sexual health. […]
Ask Bish – Your Site Sucks (and can you answer our questions)
Not everyone is a fan of bishUK.com but I answer their questions anyway. […]
Ask Bish – Is There a Safe Way to Make My Penis a Bit Bigger?
Safe and unsafe ways to make penises a bit bigger. Surgery, jelqing, pills, devices all explained as well as tips on being happier with penis size. […]
Ask Bish – I Just Can’t Enjoy Vaginal Sex But I Really Want To
Advice for someone who enjoys sex but finds vaginal sex painful. […]
Ask Bish – How can I have sex without it hurting?
Advice about why penis in vagina sex shouldn’t be painful, even for the first time. […]
Ask Bish – Masturbation With A Marker Pen
Advice on why masturbation with an orange marker pen is perhaps not a great idea […]
Ask Bish – Should I Tell Her I’m Bisexual
Advice for a guy on whether to tell a girl they are bisexual. […]
Ask Bish – Does Circumcision Affect Sensitivity?
I’m often asked by young men whether circumcision makes their penis less sensitive. […]
Ask Bish – Worried I’m Not Measuring Up To Her Ex’s Penis Size
There are a lot of myths about how the vagina works, just like there are loads of myths about dick size and orgasms. I explain it here to a worried reader. […]
Ask Bish – I Can’t Get Hard
Sometimes it can be hard to get hard. Usually this is because we are putting a lot of pressure on penises. Poor penises. […]
‘We Didn’t ‘Fully’ Do It, Am I Pregnant?’
Pregnancy worries from a couple who had penis in vagina sex without a condom but didn’t ejaculate […]
Ask Bish: Vagina Bleeding After Masturbation
A young woman worried about why she is bleeding after masturbation, Some background on what this might be but also one of those times when it’s best to get checked out. […]
Ask Bish: I’m Insecure About My Body
Some advice on how to deal with low body confidence and how to overcome this in order to be sexual with someone (whatever ‘sexual’ means) […]
Ask Bish Really Stressed About Dry Humping and Pregnancy
It’s not easy getting pregnant, and it’s much much much harder getting pregnant if you don’t have penis in vagina sex. Here I try to help de-stress someone who thinks she might be. […]
Ask Bish – Lying To Get Laid
Is it ok to lie about your age to someone? Eg to pretend to be older than you actually are. […]
Ask Bish – I feel guilty about saying no
Some advice about how to deal with feeling guilty about saying no. Remember guilt is just a feeling and we don’t have to act on feelings. Keep saying no, regardless. […]
Ask Bish – I Am Unable To Orgasm When I Masturbate
Having an orgasm is something we can learn – like juggling. […]
Ask Bish How to overcome my fears about having sex
How to deal with the first time fears but also how to deal with the pressure to do it. […]
Ask Bish Mutual Masturbation in the Shower
Another very unlikely way to get pregnant. […]
Ask Bish Foreskin
Advice on how to make sure that foreskin slides over the penis properly. […]
Ask Bish Taking Ages To Cum
Advice on how to deal with delayed ejaculation or orgasm. […]
Ask Bish I’m 16 But Haven’t Kissed
Is it weird that I haven’t kissed anyone? Short answer = no. […]
Ask Bish Ok To Shut My Eyes?
Of course it’s OK to have sex with your eyes closed but it can make negotiating what you want harder. […]
Ask Bish Jealous of Partner’s Friends
my boyfriend met some female friends a few months ago at work and they hang out weekly. it makes me jealous. […]
Ask Bish Masturbating Too Much?
Some more advice from back in the day of what to do if you think you are masturbating too much. […]
Ask Bish Stats on Teen Relationships
The average age of first time sex is … […]
Ask Bish Lasting Longer
Lots of people want to last longer. There tips on that here but also advice on why it doesn’t matter. […]
Ask Bish I Love Her But She Says She’s Straight
How to deal with big time feelings and someone who wants you but doesn’t […]
Ask Bish Bit scared…
Advice for someone who looked at Bish and found it all a bit scary (that’s cool). […]
Ask Bish Female Ejaculation
Advice (and links) about what we do and don’t know about ‘female’ ejaculation (ie from the vulva) […]
Ask Bish Should I trust her?
A question about trust in relationship but an answer about classism and prejudice. […]
Ask Bish – Under Age Kissing?
A question about whether it’s against the law to snog someone who is under the age of 16. […]
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