An answer about no arousal and strong desire but also about being ready for sex, what sex means and what we expect from sex […]
‘Will watching porn prevent me being a teacher?’
I’ve watched porn. Is it going to stop me getting a job as a teacher? […]
‘My Vagina Smells and Is Itchy, Is That Normal?’
Advice for a young person about why their vagina smells and itches. […]
Ask Bish – Am I Too Young To Have Sex?
My advice for a 13 year old who wants to know whether she’s too young to have sex […]
Ask Bish – Am I a Slut For Giving a Blowjob?
Advice for someone who was told by their mum that you have to be in love with someone before you give them a blowjob. […]
Ask Bish – Where Can I Go For an STI Check Up?
Where to go for a check up for STIs? […]
Ask Bish – If I’m 16 and she’s 15 is it against the law?
Whether under age sex against the law is different to what actually happens. I explain more here. […]
Ask Bish – I Hate My Vagina
Advice for someone who hates the way their vagina looks (after ex said it looked bad – that bit made me ANGRY SEX EDUCATOR) […]
Ask Bish – Who can I talk to about anxiety about STIs and pregnancy?
Sexual health services in the UK aren’t just places for you to get condoms, contraception, STI check ups, pregnancy tests and stuff. You can also go to chat about any worries or concerns you have about sex or your sexual health. […]
Ask Bish – Your Site Sucks (and can you answer our questions)
Not everyone is a fan of bishUK.com but I answer their questions anyway. […]
Ask Bish – Is There a Safe Way to Make My Penis a Bit Bigger?
Safe and unsafe ways to make penises a bit bigger. Surgery, jelqing, pills, devices all explained as well as tips on being happier with penis size. […]
Ask Bish – I Just Can’t Enjoy Vaginal Sex But I Really Want To
Advice for someone who enjoys sex but finds vaginal sex painful. […]
Ask Bish – How can I have sex without it hurting?
Advice about why penis in vagina sex shouldn’t be painful, even for the first time. […]
Ask Bish – Masturbation With A Marker Pen
Advice on why masturbation with an orange marker pen is perhaps not a great idea […]
Ask Bish – Should I Tell Her I’m Bisexual
Advice for a guy on whether to tell a girl they are bisexual. […]
Ask Bish – Does Circumcision Affect Sensitivity?
I’m often asked by young men whether circumcision makes their penis less sensitive. It’s a great question and it’s hard to answer this definitively but it’s thought that circumcision mostly doesn’t cause sexual problems. Keep reading to find out the full answer. First of all: What is circumcision? Circumcision is the removal of some foreskin […]
Ask Bish – Worried I’m Not Measuring Up To Her Ex’s Penis Size
There are a lot of myths about how the vagina works, just like there are loads of myths about dick size and orgasms. I explain it here to a worried reader. […]
Ask Bish – I Can’t Get Hard
Sometimes it can be hard to get hard. Usually this is because we are putting a lot of pressure on penises. Poor penises. […]
‘We Didn’t ‘Fully’ Do It, Am I Pregnant?’
Pregnancy worries from a couple who had penis in vagina sex without a condom but didn’t ejaculate […]
Ask Bish: Vagina Bleeding After Masturbation
A young woman worried about why she is bleeding after masturbation, Some background on what this might be but also one of those times when it’s best to get checked out. […]
Ask Bish: I’m Insecure About My Body
Some advice on how to deal with low body confidence and how to overcome this in order to be sexual with someone (whatever ‘sexual’ means) […]
Ask Bish Really Stressed About Dry Humping and Pregnancy
It’s not easy getting pregnant, and it’s much much much harder getting pregnant if you don’t have penis in vagina sex. Here I try to help de-stress someone who thinks she might be. […]
Ask Bish – Lying To Get Laid
Is it ok to lie about your age to someone? Eg to pretend to be older than you actually are. […]
Ask Bish – I feel guilty about saying no
Some advice about how to deal with feeling guilty about saying no. Remember guilt is just a feeling and we don’t have to act on feelings. Keep saying no, regardless. […]
Ask Bish – I Am Unable To Orgasm When I Masturbate
Having an orgasm is something we can learn – like juggling. […]
Ask Bish How to overcome my fears about having sex
How to deal with the first time fears but also how to deal with the pressure to do it. […]
Ask Bish Mutual Masturbation in the Shower
Another very unlikely way to get pregnant. […]
Ask Bish Foreskin
Advice on how to make sure that foreskin slides over the penis properly. […]
Ask Bish Taking Ages To Cum
Advice on how to deal with delayed ejaculation or orgasm. […]
Ask Bish I’m 16 But Haven’t Kissed
Is it weird that I haven’t kissed anyone? Short answer = no. […]
Ask Bish Ok To Shut My Eyes?
Of course it’s OK to have sex with your eyes closed but it can make negotiating what you want harder. […]
Ask Bish Jealous of Partner’s Friends
my boyfriend met some female friends a few months ago at work and they hang out weekly. it makes me jealous. […]
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