My advice to someone who is worried that her friend is in an abusive relationship and needs support. […]
Why is her G Spot more pleasurable than her Clitoris?
Here’s a long explanation of why some people get more pleasure out of different parts of their body being touched than others. […]
About People Not Enjoying PiV
“Hey Bish, I do like how you bring attention to how some people don’t enjoy penetration or PiV that much. Is this based on people you have spoken to personally or any studies that you have found? […]
Am I Still a Virgin?
My advice for someone who is worried that they might not be a virgin because they put something in their vagina. […]
Can I Be Pregnant From Pre-Cum?
Here’s a question from a reader who is worried she is pregnant from pre-cum, but I have other worries. This post contains references to sexual assault and non-consent, so be careful before you read any further. […]
I Feel Like I Have to Have Sex to Make Him Happy
“My boyfriend always wants sex and I feel like I have to have sex to make him happy, it’s not like he makes me do it I choose to but I feel like I’m letting him down if I don’t. I’m 14 he’s 15” […]
Lack of Pleasure from Sex
We might think that everyone else is enjoying sex more than us, but they’re not. Many people have a lack of pleasure from sex, even if they like solo sex. […]
Why Do I Have Vaginal Discharge All The Time?
Why do I always have vaginal discharge all the time. I’m only 15.and whenever I go to the toilet my knickers are always soaking wet, please help me, because I’m worried about it. It has a bit of an odour too. […]
How Do I Go On Top?
To go on top without hurting their penis a) make sure it’s hard, b) guide it in, c) move slowly at first, d) check in during sex. Click for more tips. […]
Stretch Marks From My Growth Spurt
I’m 14 and I got stretch marks on my back from my growth spurt and I don’t know how people will react. None of the other guys have stretch marks is there a way of reducing their visibility? […]
How to Show Her I Care (after I forced her to have sex)
Here’s advice to a guy who wants to show someone he cares for her even though he forced her to have sex. CN – talks about rape but there are no descriptions of anything. […]
Help, I’m Being Slut Shamed
Advice for someone who is being slut shamed at school. A must read if you like to gossip about people or judge people for their sex lives. […]
I’ve Been Raped, Will I Ever Enjoy Sex?
So obviously this post talks about rape but also about painful sex and potentially abusive relationships. Do take care if you want to read this. […]
Does He Still Like Me?
Hear my advice for reader who has asked me that age old question ‘does he still like me?’ […]
Is It The Right Time To Lose My Virginity?
Advice for a reader on whether having sex with his girlfriend is the right thing to do. […]
How To Have Sex With a Man?
My advice for how to have sex with a man for a woman who’s only had sex with women. If you’re wanting advice about how to have sex generally, read this article instead. […]
How Much Masturbation is Too Much?
A question I’ve been asked a lot lately (by young men) is how much masturbation is too much masturbation. Here’s my audio answer. […]
Can Smoking Weed Affect Sex?
Sex can make a lot of people really anxious and so some people find that cannabis can help but can smoking weed affect sex in a bad way? […]
I Had Sex With This Other Girl When I Was Drunk
Audio advice for someone who has sex with someone else when drunk. […]
I’m 20, He’s 15 – Am I in Trouble?
Audio Bish! Advice for a guy who had sex with someone under age. […]
Masturbation Isn’t Working For Me
Some advice for when masturbation isn’t working (it’s okay not to masturbate) […]
Am I Ready for a Relationship?
Audio advice to a reader who is wondering whether, they are ready for a relationship, now they are in high school. […]
I’m Getting Pressured Into Sex
Audio advice, from Justin, for someone getting pressured into sex from everyone at school. […]
We Need Help Saying No
We sometimes all need help saying no. It’s not just for teens. Listen to Justin give some advice about it. […]
Cumming on Faces – how can I persuade her?
Advice about how to talk about what you are both into, not just cumming on faces (and about why we shouldn’t try to persuade anyone to do anything). […]
I Can’t Get Hard, Is It Because of Porn?
Reassuring and useful audio advice for a reader who can’t get hard (it’s not because of porn). […]
How do the guys in porn last so long?
How *do* the guys in porn last so long? I asked one. Here’s what he said. […]
What is safe to put up your bum
A reader has a question about putting a marker pen up his bum. I say, ‘please don’t, it’s not safe.’ […]
‘I feel guilty masturbating while thinking about celebrities’
I masturbate to porn. I also masturbate over sexy pics of famous celebrities. They haven’t necessarily consented so is what I do wrong? […]
“My Parents Say No Sex Before Marriage”
How would you suggest dealing with the issue of parents saying, “no sex before marriage?” […]
Ask Bish – Our friend has been harassing a friend
Advice for a reader whose friend has been sexually harassing a friend via text (and is pissed off about it). […]
Ask Bish – He Won’t Sext Me, I’m Really Frustrated
Advice on how to stop being really frustrated about sex in a long distance relationship. My first audio response! Exciting! […]
Ask Bish – Fingering Problems
Advice to someone worried that they can’t cum but also that they bleed when they do fingering. […]
Ask Bish – Should I Get Paid to Have Sex?
Advice for a reader who is unsure about whether she should keep getting paid to have sex. Advice on the risks of sex work and how to make it safer. […]
Ask Bish – I’m not enjoying sex
Advice for some who’s not really enjoying sex. What do we really mean by enjoying sex and how do we learn to have it? […]
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