So obviously this post talks about rape but also about painful sex and potentially abusive relationships. Do take care if you want to read this. […]
Does He Still Like Me?
Hear my advice for reader who has asked me that age old question ‘does he still like me?’ […]
Is It The Right Time To Lose My Virginity?
Advice for a reader on whether having sex with his girlfriend is the right thing to do. […]
How To Have Sex With a Man?
My advice for how to have sex with a man for a woman who’s only had sex with women. It should just be the same for how to have sex with anyone else right? Why isn’t it? […]
How Much Masturbation is Too Much?
A question I’ve been asked a lot lately (by young men) is how much masturbation is too much masturbation. Here’s my audio answer. […]
Can Smoking Weed Affect Sex?
Sex can make a lot of people really anxious and so some people find that cannabis can help but can smoking weed affect sex in a bad way? […]
I Had Sex With This Other Girl When I Was Drunk
Audio advice for someone who has sex with someone else when drunk. […]
I’m 20, He’s 15 – Am I in Trouble?
Audio Bish! Advice for a guy who had sex with someone under age. […]
Masturbation Isn’t Working For Me
Some advice for when masturbation isn’t working (it’s okay not to masturbate) […]
Am I Ready for a Relationship?
Audio advice to a reader who is wondering whether, they are ready for a relationship, now they are in high school. […]
I’m Getting Pressured Into Sex
Audio advice, from Justin, for someone getting pressured into sex from everyone at school. […]
We Need Help Saying No
We sometimes all need help saying no. It’s not just for teens. Listen to Justin give some advice about it. […]
Cumming on Faces – how can I persuade her?
Advice about how to talk about what you are both into, not just cumming on faces (and about why we shouldn’t try to persuade anyone to do anything). […]
I Can’t Get Hard, Is It Because of Porn?
Reassuring and useful audio advice for a reader who can’t get hard (it’s not because of porn). […]
How do the guys in porn last so long?
How *do* the guys in porn last so long? I asked one. Here’s what he said. […]
What is safe to put up your bum
A reader has a question about putting a marker pen up his bum. I say, ‘please don’t, it’s not safe.’ […]
‘I feel guilty masturbating while thinking about celebrities’
I masturbate to porn. I also masturbate over sexy pics of famous celebrities. They haven’t necessarily consented so is what I do wrong? […]
“My Parents Say No Sex Before Marriage”
How would you suggest dealing with the issue of parents saying, “no sex before marriage?” […]
Ask Bish – Our friend has been harassing a friend
Advice for a reader whose friend has been sexually harassing a friend via text (and is pissed off about it). […]
Ask Bish – He Won’t Sext Me, I’m Really Frustrated
Advice on how to stop being really frustrated about sex in a long distance relationship. My first audio response! Exciting! […]
Ask Bish – Fingering Problems
Advice to someone worried that they can’t cum but also that they bleed when they do fingering. […]
Ask Bish – Should I Get Paid to Have Sex?
Advice for a reader who is unsure about whether she should keep getting paid to have sex. Advice on the risks of sex work and how to make it safer. […]
Ask Bish – I’m not enjoying sex
Advice for some who’s not really enjoying sex. What do we really mean by enjoying sex and how do we learn to have it? […]
Ask Bish – Can we be friends after a break up?
Is it possible or a good idea to be friends after a break up? […]
Am I Pregnant?
Frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture: “I am freaking out, am I pregnant?” […]
Ask Bish – Should I have sex with someone I met online
My advice for a girl in an age gap relationship and whether she should have sex with her boyfriend who she met online. […]
How Can I Make Her Squirt?
The first in a series of frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture. First up “how can I make her squirt?” […]
Ask Bish – I’m ashamed of erections
A long question about feeling ashamed of erections, sexual desire and being male (which I’ve split into 3 sections). […]
Ask Bish “I’m so scared I might poo my pants”
Advice for someone about feeling anxious about pregnancy, dealing with friends with benefits fall out and life stuff. […]
Ask Bish – Pressured into oral?
Advice about how to deal with being forced and pressured into oral sex. Warning: talks about sexual assault. […]
Ask Bish – “I’m Getting Tired of Being Used.”
Some advice on how to deal with being in a relationship with someone in a relationship and being tired of being used. […]
Ask Bish – I’m so confused after an abusive relationship
Some advice for someone who is feeling confused about sex and relationships after an abusive relationship. Warning contains reference to abuse. […]
Ask Bish – Can you still have kids if you’ve been sexually abused?
*Contains references to child sexual abuse* Advice to a reader about how to get support for her friend. […]
My relationship is great, but I’m not sure I fancy them
Advice on why sexual attraction might sometimes go in a relationship and how to deal with that. […]
How should I have sex if I’m a lesbian?
There are no magic tricks for how to have sex if you’re a lesbian, or whatever sexuality you are, as everyone is different every time they have sex … […]
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