Advice about how to talk about what you are both into, not just cumming on faces (and about why we shouldn’t try to persuade anyone to do anything). […]
I Can’t Get Hard, Is It Because of Porn?
Reassuring and useful audio advice for a reader who can’t get hard (it’s not because of porn). […]
How do the guys in porn last so long?
How *do* the guys in porn last so long? I asked one. Here’s what he said. […]
What is safe to put up your bum
A reader has a question about putting a marker pen up his bum. I say, ‘please don’t, it’s not safe.’ […]
‘I feel guilty masturbating while thinking about celebrities’
I masturbate to porn. I also masturbate over sexy pics of famous celebrities. They haven’t necessarily consented so is what I do wrong? […]
“My Parents Say No Sex Before Marriage”
How would you suggest dealing with the issue of parents saying, “no sex before marriage?” […]
Ask Bish – Our friend has been harassing a friend
Advice for a reader whose friend has been sexually harassing a friend via text (and is pissed off about it). […]
Ask Bish – He Won’t Sext Me, I’m Really Frustrated
Advice on how to stop being really frustrated about sex in a long distance relationship. My first audio response! Exciting! […]
Ask Bish – Fingering Problems
Advice to someone worried that they can’t cum but also that they bleed when they do fingering. […]
Ask Bish – Should I Get Paid to Have Sex?
Advice for a reader who is unsure about whether she should keep getting paid to have sex. Advice on the risks of sex work and how to make it safer. […]
Ask Bish – I’m not enjoying sex
Advice for some who’s not really enjoying sex. What do we really mean by enjoying sex and how do we learn to have it? […]
Ask Bish – Can we be friends after a break up?
Is it possible or a good idea to be friends after a break up? […]
Am I Pregnant?
Frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture: “I am freaking out, am I pregnant?” […]
Ask Bish – Should I have sex with someone I met online
My advice for a girl in an age gap relationship and whether she should have sex with her boyfriend who she met online. […]
How Can I Make Her Squirt?
The first in a series of frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture. First up “how can I make her squirt?” […]
Ask Bish – I’m ashamed of erections
A long question about feeling ashamed of erections, sexual desire and being male (which I’ve split into 3 sections). […]
Ask Bish “I’m so scared I might poo my pants”
Advice for someone about feeling anxious about pregnancy, dealing with friends with benefits fall out and life stuff. […]
Ask Bish – Pressured into oral?
Advice about how to deal with being forced and pressured into oral sex. Warning: talks about sexual assault. […]
Ask Bish – “I’m Getting Tired of Being Used.”
Some advice on how to deal with being in a relationship with someone in a relationship and being tired of being used. […]
Ask Bish – I’m so confused after an abusive relationship
Some advice for someone who is feeling confused about sex and relationships after an abusive relationship. Warning contains reference to abuse. […]
Ask Bish – Can you still have kids if you’ve been sexually abused?
*Contains references to child sexual abuse* Advice to a reader about how to get support for her friend. […]
My relationship is great, but I’m not sure I fancy them
Advice on why sexual attraction might sometimes go in a relationship and how to deal with that. […]
How should I have sex if I’m a lesbian?
There are no magic tricks for how to have sex if you’re a lesbian, or whatever sexuality you are, as everyone is different every time they have sex … […]
I’ve hurt myself masturbating
A reader has injured herself masturbating with an electric toothbrush. Advice from Dr Ranj on the injury and from me on DIY sex toys. […]
An open letter about low risk sex and pregnancy worries
tl;dr – pregnancy is very very unlikely from dry humping, wanking and sex with condoms. […]
Is it wrong to get sexually aroused very often?
My advice for a reader struggling with their sexual desires, responses, and fantasies. Some people get more aroused than others. It’s chill. […]
‘I’m autistic, will I get in trouble for masturbating?’
Advice for a reader about masturbation. Warning: there’s a reference to sexual abuse. […]
Is He Using Me For Sex?
We have sex up to 3 times a day, is he just using me for sex? […]
‘Masturbation and Porn Are Against My Religion’
Advice to a religious reader on how to give up masturbation and porn. […]
Advice Hijack – My Boyfriend Is Addicted To Porn So I Left Him
An occasional column where I get so annoyed by other advice columnists that I try and give better answers (it’s not like I have enough to do) … […]
Being Pressured Into Giving Oral Sex
Warning. Contains references to sexual assault/rape. Ask Bish – Your Questions Answered. Advice for someone who’s friend’s boyfriend is forcing them both to give him oral sex. […]
‘I Can’t Orgasm At All’
Ask Bish – Your Questions Answered. Even if we know our stuff about sex, it doesn’t mean we always enjoy it. […]
‘Should I Tell Her I Love Her?’
Love’s seen as this big heavy do or die type thing. Think harder about your feelings and think of what you would like to change. […]
‘Full’ sex, anal sex and pregnancy
Ask Bish – Another reader is worried about being pregnant but there might be other things to worry about too :/ […]
‘I Don’t Understand Sex, Help?’
Some advice for a reader who doesn’t understand sex and doesn’t know who can help. I think a lot of people will also feel this way, so I hope this helps. […]
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