“My boyfriend always wants sex and I feel like I have to have sex to make him happy, it’s not like he makes me do it I choose to but I feel like I’m letting him down if I don’t. I’m 14 he’s 15” […]
Lack of Pleasure from Sex
We might think that everyone else is enjoying sex more than us, but they’re not. Many people have a lack of pleasure from sex, even if they like solo sex. […]
Why Do I Have Vaginal Discharge All The Time?
Why do I always have vaginal discharge all the time. I’m only 15.and whenever I go to the toilet my knickers are always soaking wet, please help me, because I’m worried about it. It has a bit of an odour too. […]
How Do I Go On Top?
To go on top without hurting their penis a) make sure it’s hard, b) guide it in, c) move slowly at first, d) check in during sex. Click for more tips. […]
Stretch Marks From My Growth Spurt
I’m 14 and I got stretch marks on my back from my growth spurt and I don’t know how people will react. None of the other guys have stretch marks is there a way of reducing their visibility? […]
How to Show Her I Care (after I forced her to have sex)
Here’s advice to a guy who wants to show someone he cares for her even though he forced her to have sex. CN – talks about rape but there are no descriptions of anything. […]
Help, I’m Being Slut Shamed
Advice for someone who is being slut shamed at school. A must read if you like to gossip about people or judge people for their sex lives. […]
I’ve Been Raped, Will I Ever Enjoy Sex?
So obviously this post talks about rape but also about painful sex and potentially abusive relationships. Do take care if you want to read this. […]
Does He Still Like Me?
Hear my advice for reader who has asked me that age old question ‘does he still like me?’ […]
Is It The Right Time To Lose My Virginity?
Advice for a reader on whether having sex with his girlfriend is the right thing to do. […]
How To Have Sex With a Man?
My advice for how to have sex with a man for a woman who’s only had sex with women. It should just be the same for how to have sex with anyone else right? Why isn’t it? […]
How Much Masturbation is Too Much?
A question I’ve been asked a lot lately (by young men) is how much masturbation is too much masturbation. Here’s my audio answer. […]
Can Smoking Weed Affect Sex?
Sex can make a lot of people really anxious and so some people find that cannabis can help but can smoking weed affect sex in a bad way? […]
I Had Sex With This Other Girl When I Was Drunk
Audio advice for someone who has sex with someone else when drunk. […]
I’m 20, He’s 15 – Am I in Trouble?
Audio Bish! Advice for a guy who had sex with someone under age. […]
Masturbation Isn’t Working For Me
Some advice for when masturbation isn’t working (it’s okay not to masturbate) […]
Am I Ready for a Relationship?
Audio advice to a reader who is wondering whether, they are ready for a relationship, now they are in high school. […]
I’m Getting Pressured Into Sex
Audio advice, from Justin, for someone getting pressured into sex from everyone at school. […]
We Need Help Saying No
We sometimes all need help saying no. It’s not just for teens. Listen to Justin give some advice about it. […]
Cumming on Faces – how can I persuade her?
Advice about how to talk about what you are both into, not just cumming on faces (and about why we shouldn’t try to persuade anyone to do anything). […]
I Can’t Get Hard, Is It Because of Porn?
Reassuring and useful audio advice for a reader who can’t get hard (it’s not because of porn). […]
How do the guys in porn last so long?
How *do* the guys in porn last so long? I asked one. Here’s what he said. […]
What is safe to put up your bum
A reader has a question about putting a marker pen up his bum. I say, ‘please don’t, it’s not safe.’ […]
‘I feel guilty masturbating while thinking about celebrities’
I masturbate to porn. I also masturbate over sexy pics of famous celebrities. They haven’t necessarily consented so is what I do wrong? […]
“My Parents Say No Sex Before Marriage”
How would you suggest dealing with the issue of parents saying, “no sex before marriage?” […]
Ask Bish – Our friend has been harassing a friend
Advice for a reader whose friend has been sexually harassing a friend via text (and is pissed off about it). […]
Ask Bish – He Won’t Sext Me, I’m Really Frustrated
Advice on how to stop being really frustrated about sex in a long distance relationship. My first audio response! Exciting! […]
Ask Bish – Fingering Problems
Advice to someone worried that they can’t cum but also that they bleed when they do fingering. […]
Ask Bish – Should I Get Paid to Have Sex?
Advice for a reader who is unsure about whether she should keep getting paid to have sex. Advice on the risks of sex work and how to make it safer. […]
Ask Bish – I’m not enjoying sex
Advice for some who’s not really enjoying sex. What do we really mean by enjoying sex and how do we learn to have it? […]
Ask Bish – Can we be friends after a break up?
Is it possible or a good idea to be friends after a break up? […]
Am I Pregnant?
Frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture: “I am freaking out, am I pregnant?” […]
Ask Bish – Should I have sex with someone I met online
My advice for a girl in an age gap relationship and whether she should have sex with her boyfriend who she met online. […]
How Can I Make Her Squirt?
The first in a series of frequently asked questions, answered with a pretty picture. First up “how can I make her squirt?” […]
Ask Bish – I’m ashamed of erections
A long question about feeling ashamed of erections, sexual desire and being male (which I’ve split into 3 sections). […]
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