Pit your wits in this pregnancy likelihood quiz. How likely is pregnancy from one time sex do you think? Find out here.
Let’s see what your sex education was like. Try this really quite tricky quiz and then scroll down for that really great advice about how to manage your pregnancy risks. Also scroll down to find links to the studies that I mention.
Take the Pregnancy Likelihood Quiz (opens in new tab)
So as I say in the quiz, if you are planning on having penis in vagina sex (which is very popular still) and you don’t want to get pregnant (or get someone pregnant) then it’s a good idea to use some kind of contraception (or birth control as other countries call it). Even though the risks are a lot lower than people think, you might want to weigh this up with how much you do or don’t want to get pregnant.
If you are doing dry humping and mutual masturbation it’s going to be nearly impossible for you to get pregnant (please stop asking me about it). I made a graphic about pregnancy risks here
Read more from me about pre-cum here and here’s a more detailed description of female fertility.
If you want to find a sexual health service local to you then click below
If you want to find out more about trying to work out when you are and aren’t fertile in your menstrual cycle then you might want to find out more about the ‘natural’ contraception method. As I say in this post, it’s really hard to do.
If you’re panicking you could check out my article about how to deal with stress.
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If you do sex education then you might want to check out my recent blog about this about how we need to get better about getting pregnancy risks right and why I think that that’s important.
Here’s the study about pregnancy risks
Here’s the study about pre-cum
Here’s the study about perceptions of infertility
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Me and my boyfriend had sex he pulled out and cum in his hand but some of the cum not all touched my outside vagina, he wiped it with tissue and after some minutes we went for another round, I didn’t rinse my vagina tho but he rinsed his penis before penetration, so after he pulled out and cummed in his hand but the cum was small due to that we did it the first and second time. The second time his cum was small. After some minutes I washed up, and asked him to buy drug for me, he bought POST PILL which I took this happened on 14th January and I saw my period on 1st January, we had sex on 16th which he stroked his penis twice before releasing and I took pills then on 21st again we had sex without protection which he cummed on his hand we bathed together and went for the second round which he took slowly and pulled out cummed on the tissue he was holding in his hand after stroking his penis twice but I didn’t take any pills. Then I bleed for four day on either dat same January either on 25 or so but my normal period used to last for 1 week both dropping and high flow. And I didn’t see my period on February at all, am I pregnant and how many percent chance that I am pregnant.
Please reply am worried and I’m not experiencing any symptoms aside missed period, sleeping and eating too much like I used to. No nauseous and no vomiting but yesterday only yesterday I experienced frequent urination but I noticed it was as a result of too much drinking water I took but today i didn’t experience frequent urination.
Explain the cause of the missed period and bleeding please
Hi. If he didn’t fully ejaculate inside your vagina then the risk of pregnancy is nearly zero. However, it’s not a good idea to rely on the pulling out method because sometimes penises start to ejaculate (not just pre-cum) before people realise. So you should probably try to visit a sexual health service like these ones you to get some on-going form of contraception (aka birth control), or he could use condoms, or you could have sex that does not involve the penis going in the vagina. I’m hoping that he’s taking your health seriously, because you are sounding pretty stressed out.
I can’t tell you what happened with your period. It sounds like you had one but was shorter than usual? If you took emergency contraception (POST PILL) then this is something that can mess up your menstrual cycle a bit. This means that periods may be later, or quicker, or longer, or shorter. This should return to normal after a while. Remember that if you got your period then you aren’t pregnant. However, it’s a good idea to talk to someone at a clinic about this because emergency contraception is reliable, but there are other more effective methods of birth control. Also remember that period tracker apps are not usually very accurate, here’s some advice about how to track your own.
Can i get pregnant from ejaculation on my vagina outside
It’s incredibly unlikely. There’s more here on the Am I Pregnant page.
this helped me calm down so much. thank you.
🙂