Here is the video guide to being a man. I also have a blog post about this but a lot of people prefer my boring voice for some weird reason.
As you can see I’m also in this one, so it’s like I’m a famous YouTuber like Hannah Witton
If you like videos generally (I know a lot of you do) you’ll be pleased to hear that I have videos! Just head over to my YouTube channel or click around on the website or search for videos.
If you like this video guide to being a man there’s more in an article I wrote here, including some practical advice on how to be more better at being a man and how we can help other men.
And if you like that you might also like this post about how to decide on what your gender is
You might also be into this one about putting mates before dates
If, like most people, your sex ed was crap, you can teach yourself sex ed. I have a module about understanding gender which I think you might find a useful way to understand masculinity and femininity.
And you may also like this one about the whole #MeToo business and some practical things you can do
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I’ve been a trained sex and relationships educator since 1999. I’m a member of the World Association for Sexual Health. As well as BISH I also have resources, a podcast, and a coaching service for over 18s, as well as some of the best RSE teaching resources around. Find out out about my other work at justinhancock.co.uk. My work has featured (positively) in the media, like the BBC, Financial Times, The Economist, The Guardian, Sky One, and Novara Media.
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